Reflect and then move forward.
This short video will take you through a process to help deepen your learning and show you how to apply the thinking, so it will become more natural to understand, appreciate and value differences. The more your practice the easier this becomes. This is why people who know us call TetraMap a LIfe Hack!
Nature gives us a perfect illustration to understand how we are different, and a map gives us a route to follow so we arrive at our destination. A place we want to go. A place to feel confident and comfortable with. TetraMap guides us forward with strategies to – creating happier and healthier lives at home and at work and does not categorise anyone.
Apply what you discovered in this mini course by completing the reflection activity below.
Firm Facts
What happened in the interaction between Chris and Jana?
What was said and perhaps not said?
Noticing conversations, word choices and body language will help you develop this skill.
Clear Analysis
Consider two other situations where people may have different perspectives or priorities.
Analyse where the irritations have arisen and what caused any conflict.
What impact is or did this have?
Calm Feelings
How were Chris and Jana likely to be feeling?
Write down two emotions for each of them.
Recognising emotions – your own and others – will develop your emotional intelligence.
Bright Future
Imagine a new way of dealing with the experience or possible new experiences.
What would the future look like if our differences were appreciated as our strengths?
Our vision is simple:
- we want to create a world where people value each other’s differences
- and everyone lives by a simple recipe where “my success depends on your success”
- somewhere we all belong, where we respect each other and our planet.
Making the most of what you’ve learned
We pride ourselves on the fact that we offer ‘sticky learning’ – that is, we’ve designed our courses so that the concepts stick with you no matter where you go!
So, as you go about your day, week, and beyond, we encourage you to consider:
- How do the people around you behave and communicate?
- What words do they use, and what does their body language tell you?
- Can you take a guess at which element they are leaning towards when they communicate in a specific setting?
- How can you use this information to communicate more effectively and meaningfully with them?
Remember – when we learn to value difference, magic can happen! Relationships become stronger, outcomes can be more impactful, and positive change is possible.
